Is He Coming Back? Simple Signs Your Ex Is Still Thinking About You

Breakups can leave you feeling lost, confused, and constantly wondering: Is he thinking about me? Will he come back? If you’ve been asking these questions and searching for subtle clues, you’re not alone. Many women experience this emotional limbo after a relationship ends — especially if the connection felt deep and unfinished.

The good news? There are real, tangible signs that indicate your ex might still be thinking about you — and possibly even planning to come back. In this post, we’ll dive into the most common signs that show he's not over you yet, and what you can do to reignite the spark (without chasing or begging).

Whether you're looking for closure or a second chance, these signs can help you find clarity — and confidence — in what comes next.

Even if you’re not speaking, social media can give you major insight into how your ex is feeling. If he’s:

• Liking your photos or stories

• Watching every video you post

• Occasionally commenting or reacting with emojis

… then he’s still emotionally invested. This subtle digital breadcrumb trail shows that he wants to keep up with your life — without actually reaching out. It’s a passive but powerful sign that you’re still on his mind.

If your ex texts you out of the blue and says something like, “Remember that time we…”, he’s clearly reminiscing about the good times.

Why is this important? Because nostalgia is a doorway to emotional re-connection. When a man brings up shared memories, it’s his way of emotionally testing the waters. He wants to know if you feel the same connection he still does.

What to do: Respond warmly but don’t over-invest emotionally. Let him feel safe bringing up these memories while still maintaining your self-worth.

Some guys jump into rebound relationships right away. Others withdraw completely. Both can be signs he’s not truly over you. If he’s:

• Still single months later

• Dating someone who looks like you

• Talking about how “nothing feels right lately”

… he might be trying to fill the space you left. Either he hasn’t found anyone new because he doesn’t want to — or he’s trying too hard to prove he has.

Keep an eye on his behavior without obsessing. Emotional detachment and rapid rebounds often signal inner conflict — not true closure.

Has your ex been texting about random things that don’t really need a response?

• “Hey, did you ever find that movie we talked about?”

• “I think I left my hoodie at your place.”

• “Do you still have the password to our Netflix?”

These seemingly small excuses are usually not about the topic itself — they’re about starting a conversation. If he wanted full closure, he wouldn’t be reopening lines of communication for trivial matters.

If your mutual friends say things like:

• “He was asking how you’re doing…”

• “He said he saw your latest post and you looked great.”

… it’s clear he’s trying to stay connected through your social circle. When a man’s genuinely moved on, he usually stops digging for updates. But if he’s curious about you — especially through mutual friends — it shows he still cares and may be hoping to hear that you’re missing him too.

This is a huge one. If your ex reaches out with an apology — especially a sincere one — he’s either looking for peace or testing the waters for reconciliation.

Statements like:

• “I’ve been thinking a lot about how things ended.”

• “I’m sorry for how I treated you.”

• “You didn’t deserve that.”

… show emotional maturity and possible regret. Even if he's not ready to jump back into a relationship, these apologies signal that he still values what you had.

Sometimes, it’s not about the texts, likes, or words. You just feel it.

• You randomly think of him at strange moments.

• You dream about him more than usual.

• Songs, places, or situations constantly remind you of him — and you have a gut feeling that he’s going through the same thing.

Call it intuition, soul ties, or emotional energy — that connection might still be alive and quietly pulling you both back together.

If these signs feel familiar and you're sensing a second chance is possible, take a step back and reflect:

• Are you emotionally ready to reconnect?

• What would be different if you got back together?

• Do you feel valued and respected — or just nostalgic?

Men are often drawn back to women who stand in their feminine power — calm, confident, and magnetic.

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